Ever noticed how we’re quick to show kindness to others, yet when it comes to ourselves, we’re often not so generous? It’s like we’ve got this internal script that says we’ve got to be on top of our game 24/7. But let’s be real: life doesn’t work that way. So, what if I told you […]

One of the biggest life challenges in a human’s life is coming to terms with mortality. It’s a source of our childhood nightmares – and I know more than a few grownups who still dread even thinking about death. I have written about death before – my approach has been that life is like a […]

Hey all! I am getting suspiciously good at writing ‘I am back’ posts. Of course, it’s better than complete silence. My favorite bloggers, wisdomination.com and waitbutwhy.com, just stopped writing altogether. I won’t go down without a fight! Yesterday one of my readers asked me about updates to the blog. It was nice to be reminded […]

Hi Guys! It’s been a long time… almost a year. I know I’ve been bad… but I have a good excuse. I have been busy starting my own business. It’s called BD as a Service. I resigned from my previous job at the end of January 2019, officially launched in May and (hopefully) am firmly […]

Would you want to be normal and miserable, or crazy and happy? It seems to us that mental ilness always makes people suffer and struggle, but this may not be true. We don’t know anything about the pathologies that make people happy. People are not likely to see a doctor and complain that they find […]

Recently I came across a website that sends letters to the future version of you. I had already heard of this idea before – it’s coming up in films and novels once in a while. The ability to send a letter to the future you raises an important question. How do you treat future you? […]

I read a lot of time management/productivity books. All of them give useful snippets of information/hacks. And (usually) they all suffer from the same problem. They tell you what to do, but they won’t tell you how to make yourself do it. It’s great to do things in advance, and not leave them to the last […]

I was watching the new ‘Daredevil’ today. The protagonist of the series struggles with his identity and the past. In the last episode of the series the main character, Matt Murdock, said a monologue that made me forget all about the action unfolding on the screen: ‘I realized that had my life turned out any […]

Someone asked me recently how to deal with assholes. The person asking the question suffered from a compulsive desire to ‘clear the air’, talk things through and explain to an asshole that he or she isn’t right. With predictably poor results. I gave the answer, and then thought it’s a good idea to post it […]